Husbands and wives are often the first to spot changes in their spouse’s memory, behaviors and cognitive function. And it’s often they who must initiate the difficult conversations about possible memory loss. Acknowledging your partner’s changing behaviors or memory issues can be emotional and distressing for you both, yet it's essential to address your concerns early so interventions may be given and plans made that will honor your spouse’s care, legal and financial wishes in the future.
Family & Relationships
When a grandparent starts showing Alzheimer’s symptoms, children may feel scared, angry, anxious, stressed, frustrated ... just like adults but without the benefits of emotional maturity and life experience. Giving each kid a safe, healthy way to express and process their feelings is critical to their emotional health and relationship with their grandparent moving forward.
When one partner is diagnosed with dementia, couples often fear that their relationship – and their decades-long identity as a couple – will be completely lost to the disease. However, while it's true the spousal relationship will change, it’s also true that couples can spark quality connections and enjoy a loving relationship even as dementia progresses, memories fade, and it becomes more difficult to communicate verbally.
If you have a friend or family member who has recently been diagnosed with dementia, you may be unsure of the changes and challenges that may be coming. While dementia affects the person diagnosed, it also affects those closest to them in a number of ways. For example, over time, your loved one may not remember who you are, be able to participate in the same activities you both used to do together or be able to enjoy outings as you did once before. Fortunately, there are plenty of effective ways to maintain your relationship in spite of dementia.
When a loved one is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease or another form of dementia, it can be hard to know how to have a healthy relationship. Between communication and connecting with your loved one, it can become difficult to either be on the same page or maintain the close relationship you had before. Fortunately, with a few changes, it can be easier to connect with your loved one with dementia.
There's no denying that dementia changes spousal relationships, but you can find ways to connect as a couple. Simple Celebrations Can Keep Love Alive Your celebrations don’t have to be grand. For occasions like Valentine’s Day, anniversaries and birthdays, a bouquet of flowers or a thoughtful gift can brighten your partner’s day and improve the mood and energy in your home.
When a loved one has Alzheimer’s disease or another form of memory loss, communication can become difficult. The changes that Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of memory loss cause in the brain can create the potential for trouble speaking, issues portraying thoughts and lack of understanding. When this occurs, it can be hard to know what to do or how to approach communication with your loved one; however, understanding how communication may change, how your loved one will be affected and how to improve communication can help both yourself and your loved one with memory loss greatly.
At any family get-together or holiday, chances are there are a number of traditions you follow, stories you share and photographs or trinkets you bond over. Many of these are told and shared for years so long as they are preserved. Many of us can recall precious memories and treasures that we make mental notes of to keep passing down and sharing, but what if there was an easier, safer way to preserve these family memories and mementos?
When people plan for the future, they often think about when they will get married, how many children they will have and where they will live. Once children come along, many figure that it’s a good time to create a will and plan for future care needs. Some people, however, do not, leaving there to be some fear and stress when a health crisis occurs. This leaves their family members responsible for choosing how they are to be cared for. Most often, this choice lays on their spouses.